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10 Things You Should Do When Alone at Least Once in a Lifetime

Being alone does not mean being lonely. It’s a mirror reflecting truths that noise often hides. Most people avoid solitude because silence exposes what they’d rather ignore. But leaning into it can transform your mind, heart, and life. Here’s how to make the most of it: Sit With Your Thoughts No phone. No music. No scrolling. Just you and your mind. This is where clarity is born, illusions fade, and self-deception dies. Let your thoughts breathe and watch your awareness expand. Audit Your Life Honestly Ask yourself what’s working, what isn’t, and what you’ve been avoiding. Write it down. Progress begins with uncomfortable honesty, not excuses. Face reality fully—it’s the first step toward meaningful change. Make the Hard Decision You’ve Been Postponing Alone time cultivates courage. Decide to leave what drains you or commit to what you’ve feared. Growth begins where comfort ends. Plan Your Next Five Years in Silence Not for social media. Not for validation. For exe...

She Always Wore a Red Scarf Before Serving Me Food (Episode 2)

The moment my wife saw me eating, she rushed outside, clutching the red scarf tightly in her hand. I followed silently and stopped by the door, listening. Outside, I heard whispers—her voice low, careful, almost secretive. I couldn’t understand the words. Only my name, spoken softly, again and again. Then everything went silent, as if she had vanished. I waited. Seconds stretched into uneasy stillness. Slowly, I opened the door. She was already turning back toward the house, her face calm, untouched by panic, as though nothing unusual had happened. “Oh, honey,” she said with a smile. “Aren’t you eating?” I stared at her. “Why did you rush outside like that?” She laughed lightly. “I just needed some fresh air.” “Fresh air?” I asked, my chest tight. She tilted her head. “Are you doubting me?” Before I could respond, a neighbor walking past suddenly stopped. He looked from me to my wife, visibly confused. “When did you get back?” he asked her. “I could have sworn ...

She Always Wore a Red Scarf Before Serving Me Food (Episode 1)

It began on our wedding night with a small detail I chose to overlook. Just before serving me food, my wife calmly tied a red scarf around her head. At the time, I didn’t read meaning into it. I was happy, overwhelmed, and still caught up in the excitement of marrying such a stunning woman. The following day, it happened again. Before setting the meal in front of me, she reached for the same red scarf and tied it neatly. I kept quiet, convincing myself it was just chance. But the night after that, she did it again. This time, I paid closer attention. Each time she served me food, her voice dropped into a soft whisper—words I couldn’t make out. Only after that did she tie the scarf, and she never removed it until I took my first bite. Afterward, the room always felt strangely still. What unsettled me most was that she never wore the scarf when eating her own meals. One evening, I finally asked, trying to sound casual. “Why the scarf?” I said with a forced s...

One Fight—Two Outcomes: How Anthony Joshua’s £50 Million Payday Shows the Power of Smart Money Structures

When Anthony Joshua defeated Jake Paul, headlines focused on the punches, the hype, and the spectacle. But beyond the noise lies a far more interesting story—the money. From a business perspective, that £50 million payday can either be a blessing or an expensive mistake, depending on how it is structured. If the fight purse is paid directly into Joshua’s personal account, the UK tax system takes a heavy bite. At roughly 45 percent income tax, about £22–£23 million disappears immediately. What remains is around £27–£28 million. Same fight. Same effort. Massive leakage. That is arguably the worst way to earn £50 million. Now imagine a smarter setup. If the fight contract is paid to his company instead of his personal name, everything changes. With proper structuring, corporate tax could sit between 10 and 15 percent. That means he could retain roughly £42–£45 million. Same punches. Far better outcome. Even then, paying £10 million in corporate tax still feels heavy. This ...

Pastor Ashimolowo Faces Backlash Over Pastor Chris Okafor’s Wedding Ceremony

The founder of Kingsway International Christian Centre (KICC), Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo, has come under public scrutiny following his role in officiating the wedding of Pastor Chris Okafor and his wife, Pearl, amid an ongoing church-related dispute. The wedding ceremony, which was conducted despite unresolved allegations, has continued to generate widespread discussion after Nollywood actress Doris Ogala accused Pastor Okafor of dishonesty. She claimed that she had been romantically involved with the cleric since 2017 and believed marriage was forthcoming, only to later discover online that he had married someone else. In spite of these accusations and Ogala’s threats to release further details about their alleged relationship, the wedding proceeded as scheduled, with Pastor Ashimolowo leading the service. The development has attracted criticism from another cleric, Dr Charles Apoki, who openly voiced his dissatisfaction with Pastor Ashimolowo’s involvement. In a video...

Pastor Chris Okafor Responds Indirectly to Doris Ogala’s Allegations with Biblical Message

Pastor Chris Okafor, founder of the Mountain of Liberation and Miracle Ministry, has indirectly reacted to serious allegations leveled against him by Nollywood actress Doris Ogala. Ogala had called on the Department of State Services (DSS) to probe an alleged incident linked to a construction project at Pastor Okafor’s church. While appearing on the KAA Truths podcast, she urged authorities to “dig up” the church altar, suggesting that something may have been concealed there. She alleged that during the construction process, part of the structure collapsed, leading to a death. Ogala also claimed that a blogger later discovered “something on the ground” connected to the incident, which reportedly sparked concern. According to her, Pastor Okafor later contacted her privately to seek advice on handling the issue and calming the blogger. She said: “DSS should go to that church and open his altar. I wouldn’t say further than that. When they were building that place, the structur...

Tunji Adeleke Claims Harassment, Says $23,000 Bracelet Went Missing at Popular Lagos Club

Tunji Adeleke, a cousin of music star Davido and the Chairman of the Osun State Local Government Service Commission, has taken to social media to narrate an unpleasant encounter at a Lagos nightclub. Sharing his experience on X (formerly Twitter), Tunji revealed that his night at BOHO, a well-known Lagos lounge, turned sour. According to him, he lost an expensive bracelet valued at roughly $23,000 while at the venue. Responding to a user who praised the club for being enjoyable, Tunji cautioned the public, noting that while some guests may have fun, others could end up losing valuable items. He further accused the club’s security personnel of acting aggressively toward customers, claiming that some individuals were allegedly pepper-sprayed before gaining entry. Visibly frustrated, Tunji concluded his remarks by stating that he would never step foot in BOHO again.

Just Few Days Before His Wedding, Man Loses Home and Belongings to Fire

A Nigerian man has been thrown into deep distress after a fire outbreak engulfed his house, reducing his valuables to rubble. A video showing the heartbreaking aftermath of the incident was shared on his TikTok page, identified as @TeeGi. What the Video Reveals According to @TeeGi video-clip , the fire occurred only seven days ahead of his wedding, wiping out several personal items such as his bed, refrigerator, and air conditioner. In the viral clip, the groom-to-be appears visibly broken but remains thankful to God despite the loss. He accompanied the video with a caption that read: “Seven days to my wedding and my house was burnt to ashes. My AC, bed, fridge, and more. All I can say is thank you.” Outpouring of Support Online Following the post, the comment section quickly filled with messages of encouragement and prayers from concerned TikTok users. @Praise commented, “Giving thanks even in the middle of the storm 🥺🙏 may God answer your prayers 🥺🙏.” @Ekenedilijah...

Drake Suffers ₦296m Loss After Betting on Jake Paul as Anthony Joshua Claims Win

Popular Canadian rapper Drake has reportedly lost ₦296 million after placing a bet on YouTuber-turned-boxer Jake Paul to beat former heavyweight champion Anthony Joshua in their much-talked-about clash in Miami. Anthony Joshua Dominates the Fight In the early hours of Saturday, December 21, Anthony Joshua delivered an impressive performance, stopping Jake Paul with a knockout in the sixth round of their heavyweight bout in Miami, United States. Joshua’s superior experience was clear throughout the contest. He knocked Paul down twice in the fifth round and followed up in the sixth with a powerful combination that forced the referee to end the fight. Drake’s Risky Wager on Jake Paul Before the match, Drake revealed on his Instagram story that he had staked $200,000 (about ₦296 million) on Jake Paul to win. He shared the bet slip alongside the caption, “Jakeyyyyy boy, lock tf in.” If Paul had pulled off the upset, Drake would have walked away with more than $1.6 million...

“Men Are Now Pursuing Single Mothers, Even Pleading, Because We Have Experience” – Iyabo Ojo

Veteran Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has shared her thoughts on how society’s view of single mothers in Nigeria is gradually changing. She explained that being a single mother is no longer seen as something shameful, noting that many men now openly express interest in women who are raising children on their own. According to Iyabo Ojo, single motherhood has lost its negative label. She said men are now approaching and even asking single mothers for marriage, believing they are more experienced and mature. She added that the success and good upbringing of children raised by single mothers has also changed public perception. Her remarks have generated widespread reactions online, with social media users expressing mixed opinions about her statements. The conversation has emerged alongside ongoing online discussions about marriage, parenting, and gender expectations, as many people debate what the evolving attitude toward single mothers means in today’s society.

Aisha Buhari Clarifies Late President’s Death — Says Not Cancer

Former First Lady Aisha Buhari has revealed that her husband, ex-President Muhammadu Buhari, passed away from pneumonia, dismissing widespread speculation that cancer was responsible for his death. She shared this clarification while reflecting on the final moments of the former Nigerian leader, who died in mid-2025 at a London clinic. His remains were later returned to Nigeria for burial in his hometown of Daura, Katsina State. According to Aisha Buhari, the closing phase of her husband’s life was particularly challenging. She described his last days as physically taxing, marked by time spent in intensive care before his condition deteriorated further. She noted that the final three days were especially severe. These details appear in a newly released biography titled From Soldier to Statesman: The Legacy of Muhammadu Buhari , written by Charles Omole. In the book, Aisha Buhari linked her husband’s illness to years of harsh conditions endured during his military servic...

Jake Paul Hospitalized After Loss to Anthony Joshua

Jake Paul was taken to the hospital after his bout with former heavyweight world champion Anthony Joshua in Miami, amid fears that he suffered a fractured jaw during the fight. The 28-year-old social media star-turned-boxer showed grit across six rounds but was eventually overwhelmed by Joshua’s clear physical advantages, particularly his power and size. Following the match, Paul disclosed that he believed his jaw might be broken. This was later backed up by his promoter, Nakisa Bidarian, who confirmed that Paul required medical checks and could be sidelined for four to six weeks. Even with the injury, Paul remained upbeat while addressing the outcome. He said he enjoyed the experience and reaffirmed his passion for boxing, despite posting images and clips online that revealed the bruising nature of the contest. Looking ahead, the former cruiserweight contender said he plans to rest briefly before continuing his career, maintaining his ambition of competing for a cruise...

Trump Says Boko Haram and ISIS Still Operate Unchecked Across Parts of Nigeria

Former United States President Donald Trump has criticized Nigeria over the continued presence and activities of Boko Haram, the Islamic State, and other extremist groups within the country. He referenced the operations of these jihadist organizations as a key reason Nigeria was included among countries facing new U.S. travel restrictions. In a proclamation issued on Tuesday, Trump stated that extremist Islamic groups, including Boko Haram and ISIS, continue to function with relative freedom in certain regions of Nigeria. He argued that this security concern played a major role in the policy decision. Another factor cited was Nigeria’s visa overstay data. According to the report, Nigerians recorded a 5.56 percent overstay rate for B-1/B-2 visas, while the overstay rate for F, M, and J visas stood at 11.90 percent. Despite these figures, analysts believe terrorism concerns outweighed immigration violations, as Nigeria ranks among the countries with the lowest overstay rat...

Boko Haram Reduced Us to Forced Servitude for Rejecting Conversion, Says Survivor Fayina

A Boko Haram survivor, Fayina Akilawus, has shared a harrowing account of her years in captivity, detailing how militants subjected her and other Christian captives to forced labor after they refused to abandon their faith. Speaking about her experience, Fayina explained that members of the terror group repeatedly pressured Christians in the camp to convert to Islam. Those who declined, she said, were treated as slaves and compelled to serve the fighters. She revealed that she spent four years under Boko Haram control before finally securing her freedom on her fifth escape attempt, aided by a Fulani woman who sold local drinks inside the camp. “They kept insisting that we must convert, but we refused,” she told Arise News. “Under their rules, anyone who does not convert automatically becomes a slave.” She described slavery in the camp as being forced to carry out exhausting domestic and manual tasks. According to her, captives were made to fetch water, gather firewood, ...

Burkina Faso Frees Nigerian Air Force Plane and 11 Crew Members

Authorities in Burkina Faso have released a Nigerian Air Force aircraft along with the 11 personnel onboard who were earlier detained. The NAF C-130 plane was en route to Portugal on a ferry operation when it developed technical problems and carried out an emergency landing in Bobo-Dioulasso about two weeks ago. Explaining the incident, the Nigerian Air Force Director of Public Relations, Mr. Ehimen Ejodame, said the crew diverted to the closest available airfield strictly for safety reasons, in accordance with global aviation regulations. Despite this, Mali’s military leader, Assimi Goita, speaking on behalf of the Confederation of Sahel States, criticized the landing, labeling it an “unfriendly act” that allegedly violated international law. He further warned that Sahel member states would take action against any aircraft they consider to have breached their airspace. The Nigerian government has now confirmed that both the aircraft and its crew have been released. Thi...

Freed Nigerian Military Personnel Touch Down in Ghana After Burkina Faso Detention

Nigerian service members who were previously held by authorities in Burkina Faso have now landed at a Nigerian Air Force facility in Accra, Ghana, before continuing their trip to Portugal. This update was made public by the Nigerian Air Force’s Director of Public Relations and Information, Air Commodore Ehimen Ejodame, through an official statement released on Friday in Abuja. According to him, the aircraft is traveling to Portugal through Banjul and Casablanca for routine depot-level maintenance. Ejodame emphasized that every crew member is in good condition and confirmed that the aircraft remains technically sound and fully operational. He explained that the Air Force C-130 plane had earlier carried out a safety-driven landing in Bobo-Dioulasso, Burkina Faso, but has since departed without issues and safely arrived in Accra. Reassuring Nigerians, he stated that the Nigerian Air Force remains committed to strict safety standards and professional conduct, while also app...